Self-confidence is created through achievement. It begins with studying a problem, exercising great patience and discipline, and dedicating hours to repetitious work. The result is knowledge and expertise at mastering the specific skill. Whether we're talking about the A-team Players, or successful businessmen, the results of attaining the achievement mindset applies the same. Once you master one skill, you gain the confidence to move on and conquer others. You become a skilled problem solver. You gain a proficiency in learning more skills, with each battle being won quicker. The levels of difficulty become less daunting each time. This creates inner strength knowing you can do anything you put your mind to.

When you concentrate on attaining success outside of dating, the skills will flow over and make seduction feel more natural. Another result of self-confidence is it creates higher self-esteem. Once you have a high level of self-confidence, life becomes easy. You develop an aura, and it shows all over your face. Nothing intimidates you. This gladiator attitude creates a magnetic presentation; a lightning rod for attracting gorgeous women who previously seemed out of reach.As a self-confident man, when you are around women, your persona should be somewhat cocky, self-assured, relaxed, and yet distant. In conversation you are always upbeat, charismatic, playful, and interesting. You never even come across as hitting on them; you're just having fun on a rare night out. The vibe is the exact opposite of needy and seeking approval. People seek YOUR approval. You tend to be the guy everyone else wants to be around. When you're confident, you approach dating like any other skill to conquer. You know that dating is not a spectator sport; it's a numbers game. The only way to perfect dating skills is extensive practice in the field. You never concentrate on just one girl. You focus on both quantity and quality. Confident men go for exactly what they want. They are not desperate to get laid, and dump the game players and time wasters the minute they act up.

A confident man oozes success, and women see it the minute they lay their eyes on you. There's just something about you they can't put their finger on, but it's clear that you must be "somebody", because you obviously don't give a damn what anyone thinks of you. A strong confident alpha male attracts women. Period. It's no accident girls avoid the nice guys of the world and are drawn to the bad boys. It's their tough, aggressive overconfidence that gives them presence, not the badness people assume.

A highly self-confident man loves spontaneity, and never hesitates. The minute a hot girl makes eye contact twice, he walks straight up to her with no fear. He aggressively pursues his targets knowing he'll most likely succeed. A confident man is the Teflon man, and never fears rejection. Instead, he laughs it off, takes mental notes on what happened, and learns from it, if he made a mistake. He never makes the same mistake twice.

The confident attitude helps develop an extremely high closing ratio. It also provides you with great discipline and the patience of a saint. You avoid lesser targets till the right one appears. No matter how much effort it takes to get a trophy girl in bed, her barriers of resistance never offend a confident man. It's just part of the chase, and he knows to sleep with her he may have to deal with it. Know the value of a longer, drawn out seduction.

A Confident man is willing to take risks, and changes his plan of action as the terrain changes. He knows sitting around complaining about something never accomplished anything. When people are driven to succeed at something, it is easy to spot their passion. They show complete faith in their abilities. They are persistent, and never quit. Women eat this up.

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